Professional advice when dealing with President Obama’s Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) . . .
Wendy Behary is the founder and director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and The New Jersey Institute for Schema Therapy. She has been treating clients and training professionals for more than 20 years. Wendy has a specialty in treating narcissists and the people who live with and deal with them.
Dealing with narcissists sometimes requires drawing clear boundaries. This creates a two-choice dilemma for the narcissist: accept the boundary or accept the consequence of no boundary, which should mean the end of the relationship. However, you have to be prepared to be vulnerable and to accept the choice.
Wendy describes empathic confrontation as a process of
learning as much as you can about yourself, then about the narcissist and how
he or she triggers you. With that
understanding, you can listen deeply and empathically.
Finally, you can insist on boundaries and accountability.
Narcissists can change if they want to. However, you must
not count on change from the narcissist in your life.
Disarming The Narcissist: Surviving and Thriving with the
Self-Absorbed.
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